Envy. Can it be admiring and for a good cause?

Envy. Can it be admiring and for a good cause?

Let’s now talk about another energy drainer. This one can disguise itself even better than greediness. It has so many forms and masks. It even has an excuse – as there’s no such thing as “admiring greediness”, but “admiring envy” is quite a common term. Here are some examples of envy: Gossiping. When discussing lives of other people we are looking at them as if from above. There’s a bit…

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What is love? To love – it is a verb

What is love? To love – it is a verb

Modern women don’t like that in the East husbands are selected for girls by their parents in childhood. For Europeans it is strange. But there is a grain of truth. Knowing that she already has a husband, a girl doesn’t look for anybody. The same for a boy – he can study with no worry and doesn’t get distracted. Indians say “You marry the one whom you love. We learn…

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Is there life after wedding? (Message for brides and just married)

Is there life after wedding? (Message for brides and just married)

This question may seem funny at first but behind every joke there is some truth. And sadly enough many brides and just married ask themselves such a question. It would be so great to give a small reminder note to all just married and those who are planning to get married soon. Just for them to realize where they are heading and why. Maybe one day someone will put this…

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What is the dignity?

What is the dignity?

Let’s talk about another essential aspect, which is particularly urgent for Russian women. For those brought up by Soviet parents. For those with many childhood traumas. For those with complicated family scripts. The topic raised in this article is women’s dignity. There are two most common attitudes towards the matter: Dignity is pride therefore it is a sin. I deserve the best because I am the best (the pride itself)…

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Learning how to inspire your man

Learning how to inspire your man

I am often being asked about this – sometimes directly, sometimes indirectly. For instance “my husband doesn’t want to work” or “he is interested in nothing”. As first we look inside of ourselves and look for our own shortcomings, weak places -it is worthy to ask ourselves in such situation– what am I doing wrong? How can I inspire man and become his muse? A man needs woman’s energy. God…

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What the men want (for women about men)

What the men want (for women about men)

What the men want Special thanks to Ruslan Narushevych for the shared knowledge about men`s nature which helped me to write this article. Before marriage it would be extremely useful for each woman to have a “Manual” to her husband. The same about men – a “Manual” for a wife would be very much suitable too. Our biggest mistake is to think that we are all identical and the same….

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What is the fidelity? – Olga Valyaeva

What is the fidelity? – Olga Valyaeva

Our whole life consists of competition. Since the very beginning of it, since the birth. Our mothers were going out with other mums and were talking on topicslike: who has more teeth, who gains weight better, who already walks, crawls and talks… From the very birth we are being compared with others. Then at school – someone learns better and faster, someone else dances, and someone is just beautiful. Then the institution –…

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